How to Use a Fleshlight Correctly for The First Time

Looking for a fun new way to masturbate? Then look no further than the Fleshlight!

Fleshlights are the most popular sex toys available for men, and it's easy to see why. These masturbator toys come with lifelike inserts that feel incredibly realistic when masturbating, offering an intense experience unlike anything you've tried before.

Available with vaginal, oral, and anal inserts, Fleshlight sex toys also come with inserts molded after real porn stars! So, if you've ever wondered what your favorite porn star feels like down there, consider trying their Fleshlight!

Even if the Fleshlight isn't based on a porn star, it feels incredible to use. These toys are designed to feel like the real thing, greatly enhancing masturbation, while they can also be great fun when used with a partner.

Of course, trying a Fleshlight for the first time can be a daunting prospect, so we've created a handy guide to help you use it properly:

What is a Fleshlight?

A Fleshlight is a type of male sex toy with a hard plastic outer shell and a soft silicone insert. They're designed with discretion in mind, with the toy resembling a flashlight when not in use, hence the name Fleshlight.

You insert your penis into the opening of the Fleshlight, which you move around with a similar motion when masturbating. The Fleshlight comes with various types of inserts, including vaginal, anal, and oral molds.

A Fleshlight may also feature ripped inserts, and they can also vibrate at various intensities when in use. All these features combine to help replicate the feeling of having vaginal, anal, or oral sex with the Fleshlight.

Why Use a Fleshlight?

A Fleshlight is unquestionably one of the best ways to masturbate. The sex toy feels insanely realistic, providing a pleasurable sensation that is as close to the real thing you're likely to find.

The insert of a Fleshlight is soft and flexible, while the various nodes inside provide an amazing sensation when masturbating. It has vibrations that further enhance masturbation, while it's also a great toy for foreplay fun with couples.

Moreover, a Fleshlight can help you improve your stamina in the bedroom and minimize the risk of premature ejaculation. By practicing with a Fleshlight, you can better improve your stamina with a realistic feeling sex toy.

Discreet and easy to clean, a Fleshlight is a fantastic investment for any man who loves masturbating!

How to Use a Fleshlight Properly?

We understand that using a Fleshlight for the first time can feel intimidating. It's quite a large toy with various unique functions, so knowing how to properly use and clean a Fleshlight isn't always obvious.

Here are some tips for how to use a Fleshlight properly:

Warm Up Your Fleshlight First

While the soft silicone insert of a Fleshlight feels amazingly realistic, it also feels quite cold out of the box.

So, before you start anything, it's a good idea to warm up your Fleshlight insert with warm water. Avoid using any soap; soak the insert for a few minutes until it reaches the desired temperature. Once it's warmed and ready to use, dry off the water and place the insert back inside the hard case.

By warming the insert, it not only feels better but is also more realistic!

Lube Your Fleshlight

Lube is always recommended when using a Fleshlight, helping everything feel softer and smoother while also feeling more like the real thing. Apply some water-based lube to the insert and on your penis.

Don't be shy with the lube; you want a nice coating around the rim of the Fleshlight and deep inside the internal part.

While lube certainly isn't essential when using a Fleshlight, it undoubtedly offers the best experience with the sex toy.

Insert Your Penis and Experiment with Different Motions

With the Fleshlight warmed and lubed, it's time for the fun stuff to begin!

Just like with sex, you want to penetrate your penis into the Fleshlight, then start thrusting!

There's no right or wrong motion to use here; just play around with different speeds and tempos to find something that works for you.

You can go slow or fast, twist or turn - basically try anything that feels nice and enjoyable! Take your time to explore the inside of the Fleshlight when using the toy, feeling different textures throughout the insert.

Have some fun trying different techniques and seeing all that the Fleshlight has to offer. Remember, it's a fantastic sex toy that feels 100% better than masturbating by hand, so don't be afraid to try different things out.

Don't Forget to Clean Up

Properly using a Fleshlight means cleaning it properly too!

You need to clean your Fleshlight for obvious reasons, but thankfully the process is quick and easy. Fleshlights are designed with easy maintenance in mind, so you won't need to spend too long cleaning them and having them ready for another round.

Start by removing the silicone insert from the hard-shelled plastic case. Both parts can be cleaned with warm water, but you want to be extra gentle when cleaning the insert.

So, start by washing the outer case with some warm, soapy water and leaving it to dry.

For the silicone sleeve, run warm water throughout the inside of the insert, removing any fluids and lube that's left inside. Be thorough with your rinsing to ensure you remove all unwanted substances from the insert.

Don't use soapy or hot water when washing the insert of a Fleshlight! Soap can potentially degrade the silicone material, as can water that's too hot. Aim for slightly warm water without any soap to properly clean a Fleshlight insert.

Additionally, there is a Fleshlight cleaning product designed by the manufacturer that cleans the device without causing any damage. These work like other specialist sex toy cleaners that are designed to clean silicone and other gentle materials without damaging or degrading the material.

Finally, give your Fleshlight enough time to dry properly! Never place a damp insert back inside the case; let it dry completely before storing it. You can leave it out to air dry or pat it dry with a microfiber cloth.