12 Kinky Ways to Masturbate: Techniques and Ideas You Should Know

Most guys start to jerk off at a young age, typically in their early ages, and don't look back. Masturbating is a fun and enjoyable experience that's also great for prostate health, so it's understandable why you enjoy jerking off so much!

However, having started at such a young age, a lot of men settle into a boring routine when masturbating. Some might use masturbate sites, but most men jerk off the exact same way they did when they were young.

Guys that stick to a boring masturbation routine are only missing out on the fun! There are all kinds of unique and kinky ways to masturbate, from switching positions to using sex toys, all of which can greatly increase your pleasure when jerking off.

So, let's take a closer look at some kinky ways to masturbate, including fun techniques and ideas you need to know!

You Can't Go Wrong with Lube

Surprisingly, a lot of men don't use lube.

Lube is a great option when masturbating, as it helps ease friction, making it much more comfortable. In fact, some guys find it outright painful to masturbate without some lube!

Even if you're not experiencing pain with a lubeless solo session, it can certainly make the entire process much more enjoyable. Lube provides an amazing sensation when you jerk off, and you can even try lubes that offer unique sensations like cooling, warming, and tingling.

Try Using Some Sex Toys

Sex toys aren't just for women's solo fun; they're an amazing option for men when they jerk off!

While guys may want to avoid dildos and vibrators, unless you like anal play (more on that later!), there are plenty of male sex toys worth trying out.

For example, a cock ring is a classic sex toy for men that is placed around the base of the penis. The ring captures blood flow into the penis, resulting in a stronger erection that lasts much longer. Also, some rings vibrate, sending powerful pulses that greatly increase pleasure when masturbating.

Furthermore, a lot of men say that a cock ring gives them a more powerful orgasm – even more reason to try it!

Another sex toy that's perfect for a kinky jerk-off session is a fleshlight. Also called masturbation sleeves or male masturbators, a fleshlight is a male sex toy that replicates the shape and feeling of a vagina, mouth, or anus.

Made from soft silicone, you place your penis inside the sleeve, which has all kinds of soft, vibrating nodes that provide a remarkable sensation while you masturbate.

A fleshlight feels remarkably realistic – it's genuinely very close to the real thing! You also have sleeve inserts molded on the vagina or anus of various porn stars, offering a kinky way to masturbate with your favorite adult entertainer!

Embrace Anal Play (If You're Brave Enough!)

While not for everyone, anal play provides an incredible amount of pleasure for guys when they jerk off.

The inside of your anus is teeming with sensitive nerve endings that produce amazing sensations when stimulated. Additionally, many men can stimulate their prostate through anal play, which can result in one of the most intense orgasms a man can experience.

There are various ways you can incorporate anal play when masturbating. For instance, you could just insert a finger while jerking off or opt for a prostate massage toy, which is shaped to easily stimulate the prostate.

It may take some practice, and you probably want to use lots of lube, but we guarantee that anal play will result in some truly mind-blowing orgasms!

Practice Sensation Play

Sensation play involves using different things to achieve unique sensations when you jerk off.

For example, you could hold an ice cube in one hand while you masturbate, moving it across various parts of your body. It creates some unique and fun sensations, especially if you target specific erogenous zones.

If you're brave enough, try using some ice on the tip of your penis or on your balls when you're jerking off; it creates a unique feeling that is well worth trying!

There are also sensation lubes that are great for this type of play, each one offering unique sensations like warmth, cooling, or tingling. They can be used throughout your body, so take the time to explore your sweet spots the next time you masturbate!

Get in Touch with Your Body Using Sensory Play

Sensory play is the opposite of sensation play; it's about removing, rather than adding, something to increase your pleasurable sensations.

While it can be hard to do with self-pleasure, as you're limited to what you can restrict, there are ways to use sensory play when masturbating.

For instance, the easiest way to try sensory play when jerking off is to blindfold yourself. Use a sleeping mask, scarf, or anything that restricts your vision, then start masturbating!

The idea behind this type of play is sensory deprivation. By removing one sense, such as your sight, you increase your other senses, such as your touch. Even just masturbating blindfolded can make all the sensations feel even more heightened.

Switch Hands

A lot of guys have tried switching to their non-dominant hand when masturbating.

Using your non-dominant hand is a great way to shake off any boring habits you've developed from years of using the same hand. Try using your other hand next time you masturbate, as it not only feels different but also forces you to be more mindful of your motions and movements.

It's almost like discovering your body again, forcing you to use different techniques and pressures as you use your non-dominant hand.

Play with Your Balls

The balls are often overlooked when it comes to masturbating.

However, your testicles are teeming with sensitive nerve endings that make them well worth exploring next time you masturbate!

What feels nice does vary from man to man, so take the time to see what feels nice. A lot of men report intense orgasms when pulling down on their testicles in rhythm when masturbating. If you want to try this technique, gently pull down in rhythm just before you feel yourself orgasm – the results can be incredible!

Try Different Positions

Just like with sex, it's fun to try different positions when you masturbate.

For instance, if you typically lie down or sit down when masturbating, you could try standing up next time. Conversely, people who stand up when jerking off might enjoy the feeling of lying down.

Not only does changing positions keep things fresh, but it also helps maintain a strong pelvic floor. Men with strong pelvic floors benefit from improved blood flow to their penis, resulting in stronger and longer-lasting erections.

Use Different Strokes and Speeds

Guys often fall into a familiar stroke and speed when masturbating, so it's a good idea to try out different strokes to keep things exciting.

For example, if you grip hard and fast, consider trying a much softer, gentler rhythm. Another option is to incorporate a twist while you move up and down. Some guys even use two or three fingers while stroking, resulting in a completely new sensation unlike anything they've tried before.

In any case, take the time to explore different strokes, speeds, and grips as you masturbate to see what feels best.

Have Some Fun Online

If you're looking to have a great time masturbating with some company, then consider using one of the various masturbation sites online.

Masturbation sites connect people who want to masturbate online via webcam. These sites are great for meeting open-minded kinksters that want to have some online fun, whether it's webcam sex, sexting, or exchanging naughty nudes.

Having cyber sex is guaranteed to spice up your masturbation routine, giving you the chance to enjoy exploring each other's bodies remotely. It's fun, exciting, and incredibly pleasurable to jerk off with someone else watching, so make sure to give it a try!

Explore the World of Edging

Edging is a masturbation technique where you almost reach an orgasm before quickly stopping all stimulation. By abruptly ending all sensations, you help regain control of your arousal, which can lead to a much stronger orgasm when you eventually climax.

Moreover, edging is a great technique for helping you last longer during sex, giving plenty more reason to try it out!

So, next time you feel you're close to climaxing, stop all stimulation until things calm down. You can repeat the process several times over to build an intense and powerful orgasm!

Invite a Partner

While masturbation is all about self-pleasure, that doesn't mean you need to do it without some company!

Next time you masturbate, consider asking your partner or friends with benefits to join you. You can masturbate next to each other at the same time or take turns – whatever works best at the moment!

Looking at your partner while you masturbate isn't just a huge turn-on; it can also help you see what turns each other on!